80/20

Sorry! I have been incredibly lethargic this week! My visitor is just around the corner. Combine that with the weather change and Seasonal Affective Disorder and this little woman is ready to hibernate!! There have been quite a few days lately when I just wanted to disappear inside myself somewhere. Life, adulthood, responsibility is just too much sometimes. Especially when you feel like a rat on one of those exercise wheels: the wheel is turning.. but you are going nowhere!
Anyway, I went to see Tyler Perry's new movie "Why Did I get Married." It was an excellent movie. I am convinced that every one should go see it. One of the major points in the movie is about 80/20. When you are in a relationship, you can have 80% of your needs or 20%.
Sometimes people will jeopardize 80% for 20% and realize later that they should have stayed with their 80%. I have been thinking about that a lot. I need to stop accepting 20% I deserve so much more! Everyone does. Stop accepting people's sorry ass 20% and allow that 80% to love the hell out of you! (Pardon my French!)